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Feeding a family for $40 per week – it CAN be done!

I received a phone call this week from a TV news reporter who wanted to do a story on feeding a family for $40 a week.  She asked if I could help her out.  I explained that most of my clients were not very concerned with the amount of money that they spend at the store but that because I shop all of the time at lots of different stores I can feed my family on $40.  She said then I was the person she wanted to talk to.

OK, so now I need to come up with a plan because I KNOW I could spend $40 per week, I just don’t.  Granted, I am very thrifty and am always watching the price of food, I have never limited us to $40 per week.  I prefer to eat with very low carbohydrates and no sugar which is VERY hard to do on $40 per week.  If I wasn’t so concerned about health, I could easily do it.

Let’s see:

Breakfast: We both love oatmeal so that would be good for a couple of times per week.  Eggs and toast also fit the bill.  We don’t eat sugary cereal and I have found some bran types for $1.30 per box on sale at some stores.  Pancakes are also cheap, especially if you buy a large box of generic pancake mix.  Buying large quantities of some things pays off for us.  Pancake mix will keep a long time so that is another way to cut costs.  Grits is another low-cost breakfast staple.  Some people may not see grits as a main breakfast dish but a large bowl will satisfy us all morning.  I do think it is wise to also have fresh fruit first thing in the morning.  I have found bags of oranges (about 12 oranges) for $1.48 per bag!  With fruit, you just have to go with what is in season and which stores are having sales.  Fresh fruit is something you can’t stock up on so it will always be changing.  Recently I found a bag of apples (10 Gala apples) for $1.68 per bag.  It is hard to find fresh fruit any cheaper than this.  Remember, what is in season and what is on sale.

Some other breakfast items that are within the $40 per week range are: fruit and grain cereal bars (8 count for $1.49), eggs & toast (using homemade bread), cinnamon toast, homemade biscuits, flavored breads or muffins are always a nice change of pace.

Lunch: We are both pretty easy at lunch.  We like Mac & Cheese, hot dogs, soup, etc.  It is cheaper to make your own mac & cheese than to buy the pre-packaged boxes even though they are pretty cheap.  This just requires buying the cheese in bulk to make it cost-effective.  Hot dogs can often times be found on sale for $1.00 per pack.  When they are, we stock up on them and freeze them.  We do buy the turkey dogs so they are a little ‘less bad’.   We will take two hot dogs and wrap them up in one tortilla instead of a bun.  Besides being cheaper it is also less carbohydrates.  When it comes to soup, I prefer to make mine homemade.  A couple of times a year when we have a turkey I will get as many slices of turkey for sandwiches as I can.  The rest of the turkey is for soups and casseroles.  I make the soups up using the stock I make from the turkey and using whatever vegetables I have lying around.  Adding pasta or rice is a great filler and makes a healthy meal.  I usually freeze the larger bits of turkey to make casseroles at a later date.  Grilled cheese sandwiches are easy and relatively cheap.  For a hardier meal we will sometimes have grilled cheese sandwiches and soup.  If you aren’t prone to making your own soup, Bear Creek has soup mixes that are about $3.00 for 8 servings found in the grocery store.

Dinner: I have found quite a few items that would definitely work for the $40.00 per week meals, but I must say they are not the healthiest!  Fish sticks, corn dogs, canned vegetables are very cheap.  You can get 48 fish sticks for $4.29!  That is about .09 each!  Or 16 corn dogs for $5.49, or .34 each.  Canned veggies can usually be found on sale for .50.  Buy in quantity when you see these and stock up.

We like to eat meat with our dinner meals so I try to buy in bulk and when meat has been marked down.  Meat that has been marked down is still good it just needs to be used that day or put in the freezer.  Our freezer is often full of a variety of meat.  If you look closely as you shop you will find some affordable meats.  Wal-Mart has a selection of ribs of all different varieties.  Once when digging a little deeper in the meat case I found a rack of pork ribs for under $8.00.  I thought it was just a special or a mark down price but it wasn’t marked as special.  The next time I went I found the same ribs at the same cost.  I have since realized that it is the regular price for these ribs.  There are other much more expensive ribs right by them but for some reason these are priced low.   I usually buy a few at a time and put them in the freezer.  I have also found some pre marinated small pork roasts that are similarly priced.  I bought one to try, and we were very happy with the taste. I have since bought more and stuck them in the freezer.

As a child, my parents always purchased half a cow at a time.  We don’t have that kind of freezer space but if you do it would be a good idea to do this or at least split part of a cow with some friends as you can get a much better rate.

When it comes to chicken the price really varies depending on what you like.  If you like dark meat, like we do, then it is much more affordable to buy chicken legs and thighs than it is to by the breasts.  Boneless skinless breasts are nice for a lot of different meals but thighs work just as well if you like dark meat.  Buying a whole chicken is always much cheaper and then you have the benefit of using the ‘leftovers’ for soups.

Pasta, potatoes and rice are good ‘fillers’ that make meat go much farther.  Casseroles can be so much more than the ones your Great Aunt Mabel used to make.   You can use a pound of ground beef to make 8 very small hamburgers or you can use that same pound of beef to make a casserole with 10 servings.  No one will miss the amount of meat per serving if the casserole is filling!   Lately we have been trying to use ground turkey instead of ground beef.  Just keep an eye out at the grocery store as the prices are similar but sometimes one is on sale.

I like to have fresh veggies or salad with dinner each night.  Some tips on fresh produce to follow.  Making your own salad dressing is a lot cheaper than buying ready-made dressings.   We prefer just plain balsamic vinegar and oil which is quick and easy and we always have it on hand.  Just be aware of what vegetables are in season and buy accordingly.  Last summer I noticed a “new to me” vegetable.  Calabactias is a “Mexican Zucchini.  It looks very similar to zucchini and tastes the same to me.  Our garden had a very rough time last year like many gardens in Arkansas.  We got very few zucchini from our own garden so ended up having to purchase them.  Since produce was ridiculous last summer, zucchini, even though in season, was way above the normal price.  I found Calabactias to be half the price.  I had never heard of this veggie before but since it looked so much like zucchini I bought one and took it home and we cooked it just like we would zucchini.  Voila, it tasted just the same!

Desserts/Snacks: homemade brownies, homemade cookies, baked apples, cobbler, etc.  Popcorn made the old-fashioned way is fun for the family and very cheap per serving!   Homemade yogurt is relatively inexpensive.  Homemade popsicles are a fun summer treat.  Always be on the lookout at the grocery store for mark-downs.  Fresh bakery items are often marked down in a certain area of the store.  BEWARE of the name brand items that are 2 for $.  You often see 2 packs of name brand chocolate chip cookies for $4.00.  If you look you will find store brand chocolate chip cookies for much less than $2.00 per bag.   If you have a discount bakery (sometimes called day old) nearby that is always a good place to find some bargains.  You might even find good deals on hotdog/hamburger buns.

Fresh produce: The best/cheapest way to have fresh produce is to grow it yourself.  We have an ever-growing garden – it gets bigger each year!  We use raised beds and add additional beds each year.  Lettuce for salads can be grown almost year round in Arkansas.  There are many good books out there that will help you plan and figure it out.  The next best way to find great fresh produce is at your local farmer’s market.  It is wise to get there early to get the best pickings, but if you are looking for mark downs it is more likely you will find them right before closing time.  Fresh produce in the grocery stores varies widely.   We eat a lot of cauliflower.  Cauliflower has been $2.48 per head at our local grocery stores all winter and spring.  Aldi’s, which is a name brand store has had their cauliflower for $1.68 all winter and this spring it has been UNDER $1.00 per head.  That to me is a huge difference!  Aldi’s produce is always cheaper than the regular grocery stores.  Some people say the quality is not as good.  If it doesn’t look good I don’t buy it, otherwise I think it is comparable.

Coupons:  Personally, I am not a coupon clipper.  I find that often people buy items they would never buy just because they have a coupon and it is a ‘good deal’.  Other times you purchase the item because you have the coupon but don’t bother to look at the prices of the similar items.  I have one client who wants me to use her coupons.  I have noticed that the coupons are usually for ‘new’ products.  For example, I bought her some dishwashing liquid with a coupon.  I think it was for Joy.  It was a ‘new’ type of Joy soap that is supposed to clean better.  It was a smaller size than the usual bottles of Joy that I bought for her and it was more expensive even with the coupon!  That is not a bargain to me.

Pre-packaged foods:  This is where a lot of people waste a lot of money.  People think of it as ‘convenience’ food therefore they buy it.  If money is a concern which it should be to all and time is precious then try setting aside one weekend a month to make your own ‘fast food’.  Yes, it will take some time and a lot of planning but in the end you will be saving a lot of money and possibly your life since it is much healthier.  Yes, fast food is fast and convenient but it does not stay with you long so you are hungrier sooner and the nutritional value is gone.

Some suggestions for your monthly cook fest

*6 of your family’s favorite casseroles – make double batches and freeze singly.

*Make a huge pot of tomato sauce with fresh tomatoes and spices from your garden.  Freeze in containers for quick pull out meals in minutes.

*Make 4 batches of pancakes and freeze in bags of individual servings.  These are easy to pull out and heat up for a quick breakfast.

*Make as many loaves of bread that you might need for the month.  Pre-slice before you freeze for easy toasting.

*Make a couple of pizza crusts to put in the freezer.

*You can even cook up some brown rice or pasta and put it in individual serving containers in the freezer.

*Buy cheese in bulk and divide into portions that you like (shredded, sliced, block, etc.) and freeze them.

*You can even make up a huge pot of mashed potatoes and freeze in serving sizes appropriate for your family.

*Soup, soup, soup!  Make different varieties.  Chili, broccoli cheese, stew, ham & bean, etc.  So easy to freeze and pull out for a quick meal.

*Make some cornbread up and freeze it to go along with those soup meals.

*In the summer when you have those excess fresh veggies cook them up different ways and freeze them.  Or if you are into canning go for it.

Green bean casserole

Stewed zucchini & tomatoes

Sautéed squash

Whole tomatoes (cut out the core and freeze in bags with the skins on.  When ready to use just run under water and the skins peel right off)

Glazed carrots

Peas & carrots

Corn off the cob (conserves space)

 

*Be sure to utilize your crock pot during the weekend.

BBQ beef

Chicken & dumplings

Applesauce

Scalloped potatoes

You see the possibilities are endless!

Two hours before our scheduled ‘interview’ the reporter sent me an email letting me know that her “superiors decided to take the story in a different direction”.   I was ok with that because I got a nice blog post out of this!  I hope some of you will find a benefit from some of the information.

Death, Dying and Cherry Crunch

If I can encourage just one of you to take care of your end of life wishes TODAY then I will feel like I have accomplished something.   In my last post I talked about notarizing some documents in an ambulance for a woman who had been given 2 weeks to live.  Well, I have found out that she died later that same day!  Luckily we got the papers signed!  The previous man I spoke about wasn’t quite so lucky.   The care takers of each of these people (and many others) always say, “We were going to do it we just never got around to it” or  ”We thought we would have more time”.  It is NOT something that needs to wait until you are ‘old’ or ill, it can be done today!  I am referring to a ‘Durable Power of Attorney’, a Will, and a ‘Living Will’.   Here is a great website that will help you get started.  It is specific for each state.  Sorry to my foreign friends but I only have the information for the US.

Preparing An Advance Directive http://t.co/NwyppaT

Please check with your state laws ahead of time, but typically you do NOT have to hire an attorney to get these papers!  Also, do not pay any money to get them online.  They are free if you look.  Even a Will does not have to cost money!

I have also been thinking about Shingles lately (see previous posts).  I told Brian that I had Chicken Pox and then I told him I had the vaccine.  Well, that didn’t make sense, I couldn’t have had both.   Luckily my Mom was super organized and she kept records of all of my shots and diseases.  She gave them to me in writing years ago and I have kept them in a file, “Important Health Papers”.  Brian said if I did have Chicken Pox as a kid I would remember.   I found the paper that my Mom carefully typed out for me and it said I had the Chicken Pox and the date.  I was about 3 years old.  Not everyone remembers everything from their childhood.  Brian remembers crawling!  So now I realize I am susceptible to Shingles.  Not really what I wanted to hear.

In this folder I also kept a very long type written letter from my Mom.  My Mom would type me letters every once in a while so I wondered why I kept this particular one.   I sat down and read it.  It was written in 1987.  I guess it was shortly after my Grandpa died.   My Mom decided to let me know her end of life wishes.  I wish I had remembered this letter after she died.   I guess my sister remembered a lot better than I did because most of my Mom’s wishes were followed.   My Mom didn’t sound very confident in her children carrying out her wishes because she mentioned on more than one occasion in this letter that she would never know what we did after she was gone so it really didn’t matter.   The songs that were sung at her funeral were not listed in this letter, but my sister did find something written down in her papers.  I remember being very glad that we knew which songs she wanted and were able to carry out that wish.  Music was a big part of her life, so I know that meant a lot to her.

I also found a picture in this folder along with a copy of an email.  The picture was of the home that my family lived in in Battle Creek, Michigan when I was born.   I was still quite young when we moved from there so I don’t remember anything about that time period.  I found it ironic that the picture (complete with snow!) looks an awful lot like the same house that Brian grew up in!  At first I thought it was a picture of his Dad’s house (he still lives in the same house that Brian was raised in).

I’m not sure why I am being so reminiscent about the past.  I am not usually one to think much about it (mainly because I can’t remember the past!).   Yesterday I was really craving my Mom’s cherry crunch!  It was one of my favorite desserts that she made.   When I have a craving for something it is best to satisfy that desire otherwise I just become obsessed about it.   Today I made a cherry crunch – not just any cherry crunch but my Mom’s cherry crunch!  So easy!

Mom’s Cherry Crunch

1 pkg. white cake mix               1/2 c. chopped nuts     1 tsp. lemon juice

1 can cherry pie filling              1/2 c. butter

Spread pie filling in bottom of a 9X9 pan.  Sprinkle with lemon juice.  Combine dry cake mix, nuts and melted butter.  Sprinkle over pie filling.  Bake at 350 for 40-50 min until golden brown.

This is very easy to convert to sugar free.  Pillsbury makes a sugar free yellow cake mix.  You can also find sugar free cherry pie filling (sometimes you have to look a little harder for this).  I can’t wait for dessert tonight!

In closing, PLEASE speak to your loved ones about your end of life wishes (including the service) NOW.  Write them down because you never know when you will have memory failure like me.  It is also important so there are no arguments among family after the person is deceased.

No one knows what tomorrow may bring.

Experience Work/Life Balance

68% of working women are responsible for ALL of the duties of the house.  No wonder when given the choice of an assistant at home or an assistant at the office 68% said they would rather have help at home.   I find it interesting that those percentages are the same.  It looks like 100% of the working women who are also responsible for all of the household chores wish they had more help at home than on the job.  If they had more help with the mundane tasks at home this would free up their time so they can spend quality time with their families when they aren’t working.

For the full story from iVillage : http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/42882206/ns/business-press_releases/

WORK/LIFE BALANCE

What a concept!  Believe it or not, it CAN be done!  Try implementing a few of these ideas and see if your life becomes more balanced.

1. Turn off electronics! –  make set times to turn off electronic devices including computers (even if it is just during mealtime – that’s a start)

2.  Schedule time with children & family!  -  make a commitment  to go out with friends or your spouse every Friday night, regardless of  your workload

3.  Set limits!  - set a maximum number of work hours and stay within this boundry

4. Hire people to help!  -outsource your time-consuming household chores or errands.

5.  It’s OK to say NO! –  drop activities that take your time or energy

Check our video and see how we can help you! — The Errand Girl - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jpcK5Yj8HrQ

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